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April 9, 2008

Never ask a lady her age?

The daily press briefing at the European Commission’s star-shaped Berlaymont HQ in Brussels is an event rarely noted for its humour.

Yesterday’s menu, for example, included questions to the Commission on the subjects of organised crime in Bulgaria, a court judgment on Sweden’s alcohol taxation rules, the Macedonian elections, and Greek asylum policy, among others.  

So you might see why a bizarre exchange yesterday between journalists and a spokesperson over the age of a new, female commissioner was rather out of the ordinary.

A reporter said that she was writing a profile of Androulla Vassiliou, the new Cypriot commissioner responsible for health policy, and had failed to find out her exact age from her office.

In fact, the journalist said that she was told that it was very rude to ask the age of a Cypriot commissioner, but that she could say that Mrs Vassiliou was “around 65″

The spokesperson’s response at the podium was that it was indeed rude in the commissioner’s culture to ask a woman’s age.

Next came a brief exchange about whether the answer could be found on the commissioner’s online CV - it couldn’t as of Tuesday night- and if the reluctance to disclose Mrs Vassiliou’s exact age was in line with the Commission’s transparency rules. 

Tricky. 

Can national cultural mores be transported to Brussels, capital of the 27-country Europe?

Do we need to know a commissioner’s exact age? What difference does it make that, in this case, the commissioner is female? 

And does the public have a right to know such details about EU officials who make big decisions over European citizens and industry?

2 Responses to “Never ask a lady her age?”

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  1. The savvy journalist could of course look on Wikipedia and find out that her date of birth is 30 November 1943. So she’s 64 years and 130 days old today.

    You can’t always be 100% sure with Wikipedia, but it would be better to ask the Commission official whether s/he could confirm the Commissioner’s date of birth is 30 Nov 1943.

    Posted by: Jon Worth | April 9th, 2008 at 5:18 pm | Report this comment
  2. “Never ask a lady her age!” This is fine, but how about this way round:
    - How is old is your mother? How old was she when she got you?
    So, there is always an idirect way to find it out…

    Posted by: Branislav | April 25th, 2008 at 9:30 am | Report this comment

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