There’s the truth, and then there’s what appears in the media. The two are not always the same.
Perhaps you knew that already. But I had a revelatory experience the other morning, while chairing the first day of the FT’s innovation conference, which brought the point home to me.
We were lucky enough to have Deborah Meaden, from the BBC’s popular Dragons’ Den programme, as one of our speakers. (If you don’t know the show, it involves entrepreneurs presenting business ideas to a gang of investors – the dragons. It is must-watch and occasionally hide-behind-the-sofa telly.) We had an entirely natural, spontaneous and intimate little chat on stage: just her, me, and an audience of delegates looking on.
I had been a bit apprehensive about this. On the TV show Ms Meaden is brisk to the point of brusque, terse, and challenging. The comedian Harry Enfield has created a grotesque new parody of her in his latest TV series. The caricature is known as The Grumpy Woman.
But, although her train had been delayed by over an hour, Ms Meaden was the opposite of grumpy. She was charming, intelligent, warm and generous. And – unlike Mr Enfield’s impersonation – slim.
It’s all in the editing, you see. Filming Dragons Den takes all day. Some entrepreneurs are grilled for a couple of hours, or more. The questioning is mainly measured, and calm.
Then comes the magic of television. Longueurs are removed. The aggro is accentuated. And the polite, reasonable Ms Meaden becomes A Dragon.
I should have known. I’m not above the odd bit of selective quoting myself. But still – the contrast between image and reality was remarkable. Worth thinking about.
P.S. On her website, www.deborahmeaden.com, the text refers to her “sharp suits and sharp tongue”. I think Ms Meaden is pretty relaxed about her public image.